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Liebster Award & Nominations!!

Writing this post most definetly caught me by surprise........So excited!

First I just want to say how happy I am to be considered for such an award. This is truly amazing. I would like to thank MK Delacruz for the nomination, You can check out all her amazing stories right here You can also follow her on twitter @tattedmulan and instagram @dangerously_ambitous

Here are the rules

Thank the blogger(s) who nominated youAnswer the 11 questions the blogger gives youNominate 5-11 bloggers that you think are deserving of the awardLet the bloggers know you nominated themGive them 11 questions of your own
OK! So here's the questions that were given to me.WHO'S READY!!
1. What was the most extreme thing you ever done?         I zip lined over a zoo in Virginia I think that's kind of extreme and it was extremely fun
2. What inspires you to blog?      I get inspired by the life I live its not all glitz and glam but it becomes great stories. …
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